The Secret Behind SecretDivorce.com …Part II

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by Chris on September 20, 2010

The is part 2 of our discussion of SecretDivorce .com. The first part was a short intro into the site and what to expect concerning their terms. Now we dig a lot deeper into the many “tricks” that the attorneys and creators of this site has offer to men who are going through a divorce. The advice offered by this site is broken down into many different sections, all with real life examples and even some quizzes to make sure everything is put together properly. If you are in the position, where the choices you make can still influence the outcome of your divorce, the you need to take this article very seriously.

What’s So Secret about SecretDivorce…Part I

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by Chris on September 14, 2010

We have often received questions asking if some of these divorce products that they sell online are actually worth it. And ever since we have been running a website on Men’s Divorce, we felt that it was somewhat our duty to sort of weed out that good from the bad, or the gold from the crap. Not only has it helped us research every angle on men’s divorce advice that we could use on our site, but allowed us the opportunity to advise someone on not wasting their money, especially when times are rough. On the other hand, we would never come out and say “this is crap… Don’t buy it!”, as that decision is always up to you. But we don’t have a problem saying that we missed the ball on this one… Big time! That was the feeling that we got when we recently got the chance to review SecretDivorce.com. This little, unassuming website that was always just hanging around, but never screamed…Look at Me! I guess that is why we passed it by after looking it over a couple years ago. Recently, a chance e-mail conversation changed all of that, and now we feel that we owe it to you (and even to SecretDivorce.com) to discuss what could quite possibly be the most legitimate men’s divorce product on the internet.

Signs That Your Wife Might Be Having an Affair

09.02.2010
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Although an affair may be to blame for a divorce, it is often the inability to trust your spouse afterwards that is the underlying reason. But it is possible to lose trust in your wife simply because you suspect that she is cheating without any real proof. Even though I don’t usually often touch on this subject, I felt that is was necessary to have something available to the husbands who are dying to know whether or not their wife is cheating on them. I have put together a list of “signs” that can serve as real reasons for you to be suspicious. It is important to remember that exhibiting just one of these signs does NOT serve as evidence that your wife may be cheating on you. Make certain that you get all the facts first. If your wife is exhibiting most, if not all, of these behaviors then your DO have every reason to be concerned. It is at that point when you should be digging even deeper. Just remember, she will likely deny everything until you can come up with some hard evidence that not even she can talk her way out of.

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Separation, Divorce and Health Insurance

08.19.2010
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Health insurance is definitely a hot issue as of late, but just because there hasn’t been much talk about how it pertains to divorce doesn’t mean that it isn’t important. With the high cost of covering others under health insurance, some men may wonder when is it the right time to remove the soon to be ex-wife from the policy. Don’t always assume that this decision is yours to make alone. The circumstances should be discussed with your insurance company, divorce attorney, and/or the judge who is overseeing your divorce case. The magnitude of a decision like this can definitely have an impact on the outcome of your divorce. Also, don’t overlook the bargaining chip that health insurance can be when discussing the terms of your marriage separation or divorce.

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Important Update About Answering Divorce Questions

07.13.2010
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This is an important update on how we are going to answer specific questions about divorce that are generally sent to us via the contact page. Certain events (that you can read about in this post) have forced us to do things a little differently than we have been. You still get the divorce information that you need, but we also get a chance to continue adding more divorce tips to this website. We apologize in advance if this causes any issues.

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Divorce Tips For Those That Take Action!

03.30.2010
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There are probably an infinite number of tips, tactics, and/or strategies that you can find about divorce. The question is what will you do with the information. Will you use it? Will you even remember it? Will you take what you learn and put it into action? If you decide to take the role of a “by-stander” in your own divorce, then you have no one to blame but yourself for what happens. Action is crucial to ensure that you will get through your divorce with as little damage as possible. You may only need to take that first step, but it can lead to so many better things. We challenge you to take that first step and when you do, you will be rewarded. All the best information on divorce is yours for the taking, but you cannot expect that is will all be done for you. Read on to find out what is the first step that you can take to a better life after this whole thing is over…

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First Step to Protecting Your Finances

03.19.2010
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You have gone to the trouble of starting a new, private life away from you soon to be ex-wife, and now is the time to start doing the same, but only financially. Some of the steps presented here are just good sound financial advice, while others may be considered as a little sneaky or risky. The key is to keep 100% air-tight financial records that back up everything that you decide to do. But if anything here makes you nervous or if you are not totally confident in your financial records, then you can always opt out of any of these steps. Work on your records. Consult with a divorce attorney. Do whatever it takes to make sure that you are protecting yourself financially from the very beginning of your divorce!

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The Basics of Child Custody

03.12.2010
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The moment that you know that you are getting a divorce, you need to start thinking about your kids. It will likely be an uphill battle for you when it comes to child custody. And there is no better way to prepare for this than by doing your research and getting all your “ducks in a row” before you sit down with your wife to discuss what to do about custody of the children. Be sure to know what you want from the beginning and stick to your guns throughout the divorce. But remember to be fair, think about what impact that all this is having on your kids, and by all means do whatever it takes to come to an agreement. You do NOT want the judge making all the decisions for you.

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Item #3… Legal Separation, Divorce Attorneys & Stress

03.02.2010
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You have had time to deal with the idea that you are getting a divorce. Any efforts to save your marriage have failed, and there is nothing more you can do. The time has come to make some big steps towards your divorce. In the item of the divorce checklist we get into marriage separations, specifics about divorce attorneys, and the range of emotions that you will constantly have to deal with from this point forward. If you have been the least bit behind on preparing for your divorce, now is your last chance to gain any ground. You will be busy. You will be stressed. And to top it off you still have to live your day-to-day life. This isn’t going to be easy, but it has to be done if you want any chance of making it through this divorce with your dignity and sanity intact.

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Keeping Your Wife From Hiring a Top Divorce Attorney

02.28.2010
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This is just a simple little trick that you can use to make it impossible for your wife to even talk to some of the best divorce attorneys in your area, let alone hire them. Depending on the size of the area that you live in this can be a quite effective divorce tactic. But if you live in a major city, this tactic may just be a waste of time and money. If you do your research, you should know beforehand if this will be worth it. Ultimately, its a decision that you will have to make, but lets just hope that she hasn’t already used this on you.

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Keep an Eye Out for Our “Divorce Quick Tips”

02.28.2010
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These days a lot of people just don’t have the time (or patience) to do all the research that is necessary, even on a topic that is as important as their divorce. For this reason, we have decided to create a whole new category of posts that will only take seconds to skim over. Giving you ample time to move onto the next divorce site on the list. These “Divorce Quick Tips’ could cover just about anything, just in a condensed format. They might be a summary of one of our featured articles or a whole new divorce tactic that has not been mentioned before. Either way these short posts will benefit anyone who comes to our site, so don’t think that these divorce tips will be any less important than anything else on are site. The easiest way to identify a new divorce tip is to look for the exact same picture that is associated with this post. And as always, if you have anything else to add or simply need one of us to elaborate on any of our posts, do not hesitate to contact us.

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Keep Your Private Issues Out of Her Hands

02.26.2010
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There is no better time than now to start regaining some of that privacy that you lost when you got married. There is certain information that your wife has no business knowing about now that you are getting a divorce. The kind of information that should be kept closed away until it is specifically ask for by the judge. Financial information, correspondence with your divorce attorney, and anything of that sort should be nearly impossible for you wife to get a hold of on her own. It is the kind stuff that would give her a big advantage during your divorce case and you should do everything possible to keep it out of her hands. There are some fairly simple steps that you can take today that will give you a big boost to acheiving the level of privacy that you need. This is not about be sneaky or conniving… It is about being smart!

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Important… Divorce and Your Debt!

02.26.2010
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There is a lot of crazy, unethical stuff that can happen in a bad marriage and subsequent divorce. And one of those issues could really cost you in the end. This post is about debt, but probably not what you would expect. I had to get this out rather urgently because of an email that I received from a frantic visitor to our site that was in the middle of his divorce. He recently found out that his soon-to-be ex-wife pulled some really shady tricks on him that will not only cost him now, but will hurt his credit for a long time to come. If you are going through a divorce and your significant other is just the least bit unethical, then I ask that you read this story and consider our suggestions.

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Item #2… Early Divorce Preparation is a Must!

02.24.2010
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The short time period, between finding out that a divorce is inevitable and actually filing for divorce, should be very productive for you. You may still be shell-shocked from realizing that your marriage is over, but that is not a reason to lose a step. It is up to you to prepare for what is to come, and as the man of the divorce you will already be trailing before it actually starts. If it seems that you and your wife are doing the same amount of work on this, then you are definitely not doing enough. Research and planning are essential to getting a head during this period. If you put in the amount of effort that is necessary, then you can create a level playing field by the time your divorce starts to pick up momentum.

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Should I Move out of the House Before the Divorce?

02.23.2010
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The first and probably most common question that we get from our visitors. At some point during the divorce almost every man expects that they need to move out of the house at some point in time. But honestly, Why does this have to be the case? Do you want to move out and leave your kids behind? Do you want to have to rent an apartment knowing that you will still have to pay for some or all of the mortgage on a house you no longer live in. There are certain repercussions if you choose to move out of your house too early. And yet there is some danger of staying in a home with such hostility in the air. So tell us, given all the information provided, would you still voluntarily move out of your house and leave your children behind?

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New Divorce Question & Answer Section

02.22.2010
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Sometimes all it takes is an answer to a single question to push someone over a hump. This is particularly true when is comes to men who are preparing for a divorce. In the years that we have been online, we were fortunate to have highly inquisitive and interactive visitors who have supplied us with many questions that deal with real-world issues in the divorce process. The purpose of this new section is to answer simple questions about divorce that could give you the start you need to get going or simply a question that you don’t want to have to pay your divorce attorney’s minimum fee to get answered.

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Item #1… Should Your Marriage Be Saved?

02.22.2010
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You will know that your marriage is in trouble when thoughts of separating from your wife become more and more common. In fact, you don’t have to go out and hire a divorce attorney, or file a divorce petition with the courts to mark the actual start of your divorce. It begins as soon as you begin to prepare yourself mentally for a future that does not include your wife. This can happen the other way around as well, and may be more likely as women initiate the divorce more than 50% of the time. The real question is are you willing to put forth the effort that is needed to save your marriage… now is the time to decide! From here on out you have two paths to choose from, you can either devote yourself to stopping your divorce or you can begin to prepare yourself for the end of your marriage. We all know it is a difficult time, but now is the time to take action.

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The Divorce Checklist has Arrived!

02.15.2010
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After a couple years of randomly throwing up posts with advice and tips for men that were going through a divorce, the site became highly unorganized and hard to follow. Our visitors were complaining and they had every right to. Nearly 100 pages on men’s divorce tips and we couldn’t even find a particular post that we had wrote. That was when the site had to come down for a while to make room for the newly developed divorce checklist. Now we have a structure that is easy to navigate, allowing you to find the divorce information that you are looking for.

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Major Renovation in Progress!

02.04.2010
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We are very sorry for the trouble this causes but Divorce Advice For Men is undergoing a major upgrade and will be offline for a couple days.  When we return, the site will be more modern with easier navigation.  Oh yeah not to mention that we are stocking up with 100’s of tips and tactics [...]

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