Comments on: Should I Move out of the House Before the Divorce? http://mensdivorcehq.com/divorce-q-a/leaving-the-house-during-a-divorce.php Tip & Tactics That Every Man Should Know to WIN their Divorce!! Thu, 02 Sep 2010 05:06:02 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: William S. http://mensdivorcehq.com/divorce-q-a/leaving-the-house-during-a-divorce.php/comment-page-1/#comment-1049 William S. Sun, 18 Jul 2010 01:08:53 +0000 http://mensdivorcehq.com/?p=281#comment-1049 I understand why I should stay in the house, and I honestly cannot afford to pay the mortgage and still get a place of my own. I built the house with my dad and 2 brothers and don't want to give up on it so easily. But I am really concerned about what would happen as my divorce moves along. She asked for the divorce, and I know for sure that she has been out with another guy more than once. But she acts like she is pissed at me for agreeing to the divorce, and "breaking up the family". She tells me that I need to move out at least 20 times a day. I know she is capable of doing some real spiteful things. Early on in the marriage she was convinced that I was messing around on her. So one time after we got back from a party, we got into an argument about it. I told her over and over again that it wasn't true, but because she was so drunk she wouldn't let up. She ended up calling the cops and claiming that I threw her to the floor and tried to kick her. And when they showed up, she actually laid on the floor and started acting like she was hurt. The cops cuffed me right away, and had me sitting on my driveway for over an hour before finally figuring out that nothing happened. And I still had to leave for the night! I know that she would do something like this again, and I am worried that this time she would get them to believe her lies. I feel like the best plan is to stay as far away from her as possible until the divorce is over. But I cant stand the thought of losing my home! I need some advice on how I can handle this properly. If she is able to pin some domestic violence thing on me, I know for sure that I would lose my job. What the hell should I do?!? I understand why I should stay in the house, and I honestly cannot afford to pay the mortgage and still get a place of my own. I built the house with my dad and 2 brothers and don’t want to give up on it so easily. But I am really concerned about what would happen as my divorce moves along. She asked for the divorce, and I know for sure that she has been out with another guy more than once. But she acts like she is pissed at me for agreeing to the divorce, and “breaking up the family”. She tells me that I need to move out at least 20 times a day.

I know she is capable of doing some real spiteful things. Early on in the marriage she was convinced that I was messing around on her. So one time after we got back from a party, we got into an argument about it. I told her over and over again that it wasn’t true, but because she was so drunk she wouldn’t let up. She ended up calling the cops and claiming that I threw her to the floor and tried to kick her. And when they showed up, she actually laid on the floor and started acting like she was hurt. The cops cuffed me right away, and had me sitting on my driveway for over an hour before finally figuring out that nothing happened. And I still had to leave for the night! I know that she would do something like this again, and I am worried that this time she would get them to believe her lies. I feel like the best plan is to stay as far away from her as possible until the divorce is over. But I cant stand the thought of losing my home! I need some advice on how I can handle this properly. If she is able to pin some domestic violence thing on me, I know for sure that I would lose my job. What the hell should I do?!?

]]> By: Joshua http://mensdivorcehq.com/divorce-q-a/leaving-the-house-during-a-divorce.php/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Joshua Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:08:23 +0000 http://mensdivorcehq.com/?p=281#comment-5 Great advice. I know too many men who moved out way before they had to. Personally, I was in the house for 9 moths before I was forced to move and it worked out fine. Great advice. I know too many men who moved out way before they had to. Personally, I was in the house for 9 moths before I was forced to move and it worked out fine.

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